2/16/2024 - sitting on the ground staring at the wall/ceiling of my bed room in Southern California, -$84,000 today on the Hustler stream.
I’m amidst a $1,000,000 “downswing” in poker over the last several months. By far the longest I’ve had a losing streak for and by far the most amount of dollars I’ve lost. Yet both, are nothing special - the duration and dollar amount. See, I’ve been playing a dangerous game - playing way above my bankroll and infrequently in volume- now both have reared its ugly head at the same time and I’m paying the price. The real reason why I put “downswing” in quotes isn’t because of the lack of volume played nor high dollar amount, it’s self inflicted. Each and every single one of my biggest loss seems to be caused by a sprinkle of unfavorable card distribution mixed with a heavy dosage of self-destructive tendencies. It appears in tilt, gambling too hard, pushing too much action, etc.
Today, throughout the duration of the 6 hour live stream, I felt this familiar feeling bubble up numerous times. 5 and a half hours into the stream and one mistimed bluff later, this feeling culminated into a beautiful torching of money.. we were 15 minutes away from the stream ending. I was so close… yet I watched myself uncontrollably ignite $50,000 on fire in a series of poorly played, poorly executed poker hands that I had no rhyme nor reason to play.. other than to feel something? what is the reason for this, this anger, disgust? I was so close to surviving losing a small/breakeven amount, yet in a matter of minutes that opportunity vanished as I gave every single lovely person at my table a share of this tilt I was feeling - making them richer one by one.
On the sad and quiet drive home, I can’t help but wonder… why??? What in the actual entire fuck is wrong with me? As the negative self talk simmered, I started to actually brainstorm. Maybe I’ve lost all respect for money and poker?? The one saving grace in my life was poker; yet this beautiful game I fell in love with is also the one that’s causing a lot of heartache and financial harm. I’ve documented my journey the past 5 years with poker - I’ve done nothing but try to stretch the limits of myself and boundaries with this game. Whether it’s through tournaments or high stakes cash games, I’ve tried to climb higher and higher in the challenge. Luckily, I've been able to succeed and survive, but this continuous climb makes me numb to the lower stakes and normalcy of this game. Actually there is no normal anymore, for the last 2 years, my “normal” was shot taking the biggest cash game or tournament buy in. Now that dopamine rush and thrill seeking nature is a never ending beast, always quenching for the next “shot” or opportunity to put 50-100% of my net worth on the table. And finally THEN, the game will feel like it’ll matter… until it’s over and we start over again.
The sad truth and realization is.. I’ve lost respect for the game and money throughout this journey. To be fair, who wouldn’t be? The stakes can be increased until infinity, the high of bluffing for a million dollars can never be attained again unless it’s a bluff for 2 million. All the catch a feeling? This doesn’t seem sustainable but so isn’t my downswing via lack of self control/discipline. And here I am, still sitting on my floor feeling like I’m at rock bottom again. Feeling like I have fucking Mount Everest to climb and all I have is a pair of shoes and ice picker to start.
I don’t know how many people can relate to this but I hope in some way, this style of writing/venting can help in your own situation. I truly appreciate all the friends/people that read these, it means more than you know to be 100% transparent and vulnerable yet also find some value through this. I certainly have a lot more soul searching and mindset problems to dig through, but this is as far as I’ve gotten on my 25 minute drive home after the losing session. Hope you have a wonderful day/night.
Much Love,
Ethan (Rampage) <3
This game was never about making money. There’s top pros in the world playing 5/10 for a living with 300 plus buy ins. It’s about solving one hand at a time. Truth is you were playing 1/2 1/3 few years back. So your poker skillset is just not there. You are playing one of the softest games out there, comparable to live 1/3. Most of your opponents have a main income source that generates millions of dollars every quarter of the year for them. What’s hurting is the truth, playing “higher stakes” doesn’t mean you are playing against the strongest competition. 10/20 Bellagio is by far tougher than most games out there. I coached over 240 students up till today, so I am well aware of current poker world dynamics. Again making more money should never be the reason why you play poker. Trying to become a better player than you were yesterday, now that’s the goal.
The game was never about money. There’s top pros in the world playing 5/10 for a living. It’s about solving one hand at a time. Truth is you were playing 1/2 1/3 few years back. So your poker skillset is just not there. You are playing one of the softest games out there, comparable to live 1/3. They have a main income source that generates millions of dollars every quarter of the year. What’s hurting is truth, playing “higher stakes” doesn’t mean you are playing against the strongest competition. 10/20 Bellagio is by far tougher than most games out there. I coached over 240 students up till today, so I am well aware of current poker world dynamics. Again making more money should never be the reason why you play poker. Trying to become a better player than you were yesterday, now that’s the goal.